Perth, here we come

Just booked a tiger airways flight to Perth in November for the 3 of us ! yippee! Planning starts !

Actually, I really wanted to join in the Cairns trip with the chua family, because I felt that travelling as a group would be fun and Winston would enjoy the company of his cousins very much. However, something triggered me to pull out from the trip yesterday.

This matter also triggered me to lose my temper with Winston yesterday.

I dislike my sister-in-law.

I dislike her high-handedness in handling of relationships especially with our side of the family. She thinks that only her way of handling kids is the best. There was once she sarcastically told me that she envied me for being able to tolerate Winston’s running about during mealtime. Isn’t that indirectly boasting that my nephew is able to sit down during dinner time ?

Ever since her son was born, and ever since she established the routine of coming to my mother’s and later my sister’s house for dinner everyday, she would ask my mother to bathe for my nephew everyday. I dislike her way of instructing my mother what to do, and I dislike my mother for quietly abiding by her instructions. Now, my mother takes in upon herself that it’s her job to do it.

You know what, I hope that my nephew’s wife would treat her in the same way.